Wild Wisdom Relationship Coaching

I have struggled with relationships my whole life; my mother, my siblings, friends and romantic relationships.  I didnt understand other human beings behaviours, my emotions or how to communicate. This led to a lot of frustration, growing tensions, arguments followed by big emotional shutdowns.

 I found it hard to make friends at school an

I have struggled with relationships my whole life; my mother, my siblings, friends and romantic relationships.  I didnt understand other human beings behaviours, my emotions or how to communicate. This led to a lot of frustration, growing tensions, arguments followed by big emotional shutdowns.

 I found it hard to make friends at school and experienced a lot of bullying and felt very insecure throughout high school. 

I had boyfriends but they all consistently came to a rather dramatic ending eventually leaving me puzzled and heartbroken. 

How is this relationship thing meant to work? 

Fast forward a few years and I move to Canada thinking I could leave my past behind, but it followed me here too. Fast forward a few more years and I am a few years into a marriage  thats failing; screaming fights everyday, both of us blaming the other, wanting the other to change and wishing it was all a bad dream. How did it go so wrong? Did I miss a class at school? Marriage was meant to be it, forever...

We were both in therapy and then started couples therapy but the fights got worse and worse and I felt like I was drowning, everyday life was so overwhelming, my heart felt empty, my thoughts were so so negative, I had lost all hope and motivation in my life, the love had died, I finally gave up and left. 

Therapy had given me a few diagnosis that in the beginning felt like relief because they explained my behaviour and why I struggled so much, but soon they began to feel like a ball and chain, “this is who I am I guess I am stuck like this” thankfully one day I decided I don't believe in labels and that was the beginning of my freedom.

Once I began to breath again on my own, I knew one thing for sure, I wasnt going to end up in that kind of relationship ever again. I was going to figure this thing out.

How do relationships work?

I continued working with the relationship therapist and my personal therapist, I was doing all kinds of self development courses, reading books, listening to podcasts. All of it felt helpful at the time but then came my new love interest and just like that old feeling when I moved to Canada, we both brought our old dramas  with us into the new relationship and very quickly were triggering each other very badly, anxious avoidant cycles, shut downs, frustration, disappointment.

Why wasn't all the things I was learning working?

Then I discovered something so profound but so simple it’s ridiculous. Why hadn’t someone taught me this before in my years of therapy? 

Suddenly I felt so much more at peace with my relationship, there wasn't this huge urge to fix and change all the things. I quit therapy and couples therapy,  I didn't need years to heal, I wasn't broken. I had just innocently fallen asleep all these years to what was inside me all along.

My Wild Wisdom had awoken and there was no turning back.

Thats when the Wild Wolf Protocol was born, it transformed my relationship with my amazing partner, my whole family, even my dog! It gave me more confidence and self esteem in my decision making, my anxiety disappeared, I stopped worrying about the future and contentment started creeping in as peace of mind became the new normal.

Have I got it all figured out? Hell no!

I cant control my future or my relationship(s) but I am now ok with that  and I understand how to navigate the hard times so they dont become huge dramas. 

I can honestly say I'm rather excited for the journey of life that I am on, ups, downs and everything in between. Life is so much easier, now that I finally understand how Relationships work.

The end.. 

I have tried so freaking many techniques, therapies, approaches, courses and programs and until I discovered this simple understanding that led to the creation of the Wild Wolf Protocol, I felt like I was constantly chasing my tail and feeling lost in the wilderness of information and options.

Neurofeedback, Couples therapy,  Poly Vagal Th

I have tried so freaking many techniques, therapies, approaches, courses and programs and until I discovered this simple understanding that led to the creation of the Wild Wolf Protocol, I felt like I was constantly chasing my tail and feeling lost in the wilderness of information and options.

Neurofeedback, Couples therapy,  Poly Vagal Therapy/healing, EMDR,  NLP, Hypnosis, life coaching, Somatic therapy.

Yes there was  some slow progress over the 7 years of my searching and trying everything I could find and learn and it helped me to cope but ultimately I wasn’t getting to the root cause of my problems and I wasn't thriving.

I found my self addicted to therapy, I would save up all my complaints about life, my resentments about my relationship and bring it all to that one hour and spend it blurting it all out, feeling the pain and drama like it was happening all over again. 

After my sessions I felt so drained and disregulated. But back then I figured its part of the process and theres no other way. 

The solutions sounded great in practice but in my real life and my relationship they didn't work and they put so  much pressure on us both to change. 

The other issue I faced was that they all required me to do homework and exercises and I could hardly ever remember to or feel like doing them which made me feel lazy and like a failure.

The Wild Wolf Protocol relies on instinct not intelligence and gets to the root cause of all relationship problems.  No awkward uncomfortable communication exercises needed, no practicing calming techniques or taking notes and memorizing things. Just simple  principles that that will make your life a hell of a lot easier.

 No going into your past to find the trauma or digging up all your dirty laundry and bringing up those yucky feelings all over again and best of all it doesn’t take years, in 8 weeks your life is going to transform and you can enjoy the wild beauty  that life and relationships have to offer. 

So If you want to experience relationship freedom and transcend your struggles and skip the years and years and hard uncomfortable work that other methods and approaches take  then book a free Wild Discovery Session below to start your journey.